The Hollow Kind of Love

A woman sitting alone against a wall, hugging her knees, looking down in deep contemplation, conveying sadness and emotional distance.

There’s a kind of “love you” that doesn’t feel like love at all.

It’s short. It’s sharp. It lands flat, like a door closed too quickly behind you. You hear it, but you don’t feel it. You don’t carry it with you into the night.

Last night, I did something that took emotional energy—something I didn’t have to do. I showed up, not because I was obligated, but because I care. Because I wanted to make sure everything was okay.

What I got in return?

“Night. Love you.”

It wasn’t a thank you. It wasn’t softness. It wasn’t a recognition of effort or trust or presence. It was just… a default. A bedtime routine stamped with emotional indifference.

And maybe that’s what hurts the most—when love becomes a habit instead of a feeling. When you give someone the good parts of you and they return a hollow version of what you deserve.

It’s not about needing a parade. It’s about wanting to be seen. Really seen.

And I’m learning that’s the line. That’s where peace begins—not by waiting for validation, but by recognizing when it’s never coming, and still choosing to walk forward anyway.

I don’t need applause. I don’t need over-explaining. I need people who see my heart without me having to carve it out and hold it in front of them.

This is why I build.

This is why I create.

Sparrow Trades isn’t just jewelry. It’s proof that something meaningful can rise from quiet heartbreak. It’s how I remind myself—and others—that we are still worthy, still beautiful, still seen.

Even when love sounds more like silence than song.

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